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This removes one goroutine per peer which tends to be a pretty big deal. This
brings go-ipfs down from 5.5 to 4.5 goroutines per peer.

And expose a separate function for _just_ getting want-blocks. When the user
runs `ipfs bitswap wantlist`, they expect to see everything the node is
currently looking for.
Co-Authored-By: dirkmc <dirkmdev@gmail.com>

We use these outside of bitswap for testing.