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* feat(responsemanager): add ability to pause response outside of a hook

Add the ability for anyone who knows a requestID & peer to pause a response at any time

* feat(responsemanager): add direct cancellations

add function to directly cancel responses from requestID. also, move query execution code to
seperate struct, internal for now

* fix(responsemanager): minor heap allocation optimization

* feat(responsemanager): support extensions on resume

Support sending extensions when resuming a request

* fix(lint): fix lint errors