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* refactor(hooks): refactor default validation as hook, add unregister option

* feat(graphsync): add disable default validation option

* fix(responsemanager): fix mutex  unlocking

cover case where unlocking was not happening

Remove the encode and decode on ipldbridge as part of ramp up to removing entirely
Also move selector encode/decode to within protobuf encoding

add a default validation policy that only accepts selectors up to 100 depth