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We have both generic marshal and unmarshal -- they should work for any
current or future ipld.Node implementation, and for any encoding
mechanism that can be bridged to via refmt tokens.

Tests are also updated to use builders rather than the ancient
"mutable node" nonsense, which removes... I think nearly the last
incident of that stuff; maybe we can remove it entirely soon.

As when we moved the unmarshal code into its generic form, most of
this code already existed and needed minor modification.  Git even
correctly detects it as a rename this time since the diff is so small.
And as when we moved the unmarshal code, now we also remove the
whole PushTokens interface; we've gotten to something better now.

Finally we're getting to the point we can look at wiring these up
together with all the multicodec glue and get link loading wizardry
at full voltage.  Yesss.  Sooon.
Signed-off-by: Eric Myhre <hash@exultant.us>